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Twice As Likely To Die?!? Why? What Can We Do?
I was appalled and dismayed when I read a recent study last week. It found that Autistic people 0 to 24 are 2x more likely to die that those without autism. The risk for mortality was even higher among autistic...
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C'mon, Get Happy!
There's no doubt that we find happiness in the present. Even when we let our mind wander to happy topics, we are not as happy as we are when we are engaged in what we are doing, found Harvard Researchers.
When we're...
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Practice 7 Habits to UpLevel Our Skills
We chip away at our challenges every day of the week using the 7 Adulting Habits, and then start again on Sunday.
The struggles we face preparing our autistic graduates for life on their own seem to have no ending....
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Can Regret Be Useful? It feels terrible.
I dedicate this video to all of us who wish we had done better.
We can transform regret into a valuable learning experience. When we practice self-compassion, reframing regret as an opportunity for growth, and connect...
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They graduated. Now what?
It feels like we both 'fell off the cliff' when our autistic graduates graduated.
It is now up to us to guide them and gather the supports they need to transition from school-defined to self-defined lives. Resources...
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Power UP to do what matters and get what you want
Here's howĀ I get done what matters most to me. It's alsoĀ how I encourage my graduatesĀ to do the work to build the life they want.
I useĀ the 3-2-1 Power UP! Tool daily. It energizes me. It's the #2 tool (#1 is STEAR...
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BEST Advocacy Formula Ever by Dr. Neff
Here's my take on Dr. Megan Neff's Chapter, "Discover The Power of Self-Advocacy" from her new book SELF CARE FOR AUTISTIC PEOPLE available March 17,...
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Dr. Megan Anna Neff reading "Discovering the Power of Self Advocacy” from her book, "Self-Care for Autistic People"
Dr. Megan Anna is a clinical psychologist specializing in the support and empowerment of neurodivergent adults through her expertise in neurodivergent affirming care and assessments. ThisĀ episode is Dr. Neff reading...
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Stop the Alarm! I need to be okay NOW!
Our anxiety alarm is sounding and we need immediate relief. We just need to get through this! What do we do?
Here are 12 ways to silence the alarm. They don't heal only help short term.
Still, we need lots of ways to...
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How To Heal Anxiety In 2 Steps
Here's the second videoĀ in a series that takes what I've learned from Dr. Kennedy and other teachers to suggest a path toĀ heal anxiety for good.
I outlineĀ the 3 steps we practice to get relief from chronic alarms...
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Heal Anxiety For Good
In his book, Anxiety Rx, Dr. Russell Kennedy describes how he cured his anxiety in his 50s without pharmaceuticals or therapy, because those didn't work for him. He believes that, "to truly overcome anxiety, we must...
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Constructive Complaining for Respectful Resolutions
When you are at odds with your autistic graduate, you're unhappy with what the time they spend on screens or they haven't kept their promise to do a chore, what do you do? Here's a constructive way to respectfully...
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