Here are the bonus training videos I promised you
How We Invite Graduates to Weekly Calls
How to invite graduates to weekly calls using the PEACE frameworkā€”pausing to respect brain safety, empathizing, aligning on shared goals, collaborating on low-pressure choices, and experimenting with small supported steps instead of pushing.
Confidence grows through choice, trust, and action taken together, making weekly calls a safe, flexible place to practice adulting with support.
Listening isn't about agreeing ā€” it's about understanding
The problem with parents is that we think we know best. To be fair, we often do. For sure we know we have our graduates' best interests at heart because we love them.
Unfortunately, graduates often avoid listening to parents. They believe they've heard it already, or that their parents just don't understand them well enough to offer good options, or that they are just criticizing.
To be fair, parents do tend to suggest, advise and criticize instead of listen.Ā It takes energy to really listen to each other.
Everyone Gets Results their Own Way
And it really helps if we have a reliable way to sort out what we want and what we're willing to do to get it.
It's best if it is on our phone so anytime inspiration hits we can tuck our ideas away. We can also remind ourselves to practice theĀ actions and thoughts that cultivate inner peace as we're strivingĀ to reach our goals.
It's their life GPS and here is how to create it.
